How Can I Relieve and Manage Stress? Ask Amy Cleveland!

by TBJL Editor

July 28, 2020

Amy is a professional career strategist and facilitator at TampaBay-Job-Links who specializes in personal development and career management. As an expert in managing stress, Amy hosts our workshop on “Staying Healthy in Stressful Times.” We reached out to Amy and asked her what her top recommendations are for relieving and managing stress. Here’s her advice:


First, take a deep breath in.  Now let it out.  You may notice a difference on how you feel already. Deep breathing counters the effects of stress by slowing the heart rate and lowering blood pressure. Your breath is a powerful tool to ease stress. It may make you feel less anxious and possibly relaxed.  Some simple breathing exercises along with some simple relaxation exercises can make a big difference if you make them part of your regular routine.  Don’t force it, though. Forcing your breathing can make you feel more stressed!


Short shallow breaths that stop at your chest can make you feel anxious and zap your energy.  With deep breathing, you will learn how to take larger breaths all the way into your belly.

  1. Get comfortable. You can lie on your back in bed or on the floor with a pillow under your head and knees. You can also sit in a chair with your shoulders, head, and neck supported against the back of the chair.
  2. Breathe in through your nose and let your belly fill with air.
  3. Breathe out through your nose.
  4. Place one hand on your belly and the other hand on your chest.  
  5. As you breathe in, feel your belly rise.  As you breathe out, feel your belly lower.  The hand on your belly should move more than the hand on your chest!
  6. Take two or three more full, deep breaths.  Breathe fully into your belly as it rises and falls with your breath.


While you practice deep breathing, imagine a picture in your mind with a word or phrase to help you feel more relaxed.  Envision breathing in “peace and calm” and breathing out “stress and tension.”

  1. Close your eyes.
  2. Take a few big, deep breaths.
  3. Breathe in. As you do that, imagine that the air is filled with a sense of “peace and calm.”  Try to feel it throughout your body.
  4. Breathe out.  As you are doing it, imagine that the air leaves with all of your “stress and tension.”
  5. Now, use a word or phrase as you breathe.  For example, as you breathe in you may say in your mind “I breathe in calm and peace.”  As you breathe out, you may say in your mind “I breathe out stress and tension.”
  6. Continue this for 5 minutes, building up to 10 and eventually 20 minutes!


  1. Sit comfortably on the floor or on a chair.
  2. Breathe in through your nose, and as you do it, count to five.
  3. Now, breathe out through your nose to the count of five.
  4. Repeat several times. 


Besides breathing, seek a good dose of humor. A good belly laugh doesn’t just lighten the load mentally, it lowers cortisol, your body’s stress hormone, and boosts brain chemicals called endorphins which help your mood. A laugh a day can keep the doctor away! 


  1. Mentally scan your body to get a sense of how stress affects it each day.  Lie on your back or sit with your feel on the floor.
  2. Start with your toes and work your way up to your head, focusing on each body part and noticing how each area feels.  Simply be aware of places you feel tight or loose without trying to change anything.
  3. For 1 to 2 minutes, imagine each deep breath flowing to that body part.
  4. Repeat the process as you move your focus up your body, paying close attention to sensations you feel in each body part.


A few minutes of meditation practice each day can help ease anxiety.

  1. Sit up straight, close your eyes, and have your hand on your belly.
  2. Slowly inhale through your nose, feeling the breath start in your abdomen and work its way to the top of your head.
  3. Reverse the process as you exhale through your mouth.

For more advice and up-to-date career guidance, follow Tampa Bay Job Links on Facebook and LinkedIn. If you would like to work with a professional career coach to kickstart your job search contact us today at 813.344.0200 or email at Also, we invite you to join us for our free virtual workshop series. These workshops provide helpful tools for job seekers to get their job search moving! 

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